When I started my Wedding photography journey back in 2014, bringing dogs to weddings was something that very rarely happened. Fast forward to 2022 and it is now a surprise when I find out that a couple won’t be bringing their beloved four legged friend along with them.
For me, I am always very happy when I hear that a pampered pooch will be centre stage on the wedding day but my experience over the last few years with many, many dogs of all shapes and sizes has taught me a thing or two with regards to what works and what doesn’t.
I’m sure you have heard the phrase ‘never work with children or animals’. Whilst there is an element of truth in this, I have always believed this phrase is muttered by those that don’t want to work hard and reap the rewards. Whilst I agree working with children and animals is completely unpredictable and difficult at times, being a professional means this is part of the job (and part of the job I LOVE). Working calmly and patiently with the subject results in fun, relaxed and lovely photos which deserve to adorn your walls.
I have had some very memorable weddings with four legs present and they certainly do make people smile. For some couples, a dog is their first step in to the ‘family’ zone and they are like a child to them. Having their cherished dog by their side while they say their wedding vows seems only right.
However I have a few words of caution that is well worth considering if you are planning on having your four legged friend present at your wedding.
Whilst I love dogs there are many people that don’t. I’m not referring to friends and family when I say this as chances are you all share the same interests and values but I’m referring to your suppliers. At a recent wedding the Groom was speaking with the registrars prior to their ceremony when he mentioned that their dog was the official ring bearer. The registrars face dropped and she declared she was ‘terrified of dogs’. This was not ideal and resulted in some logistical reworking to keep the dog at a distance so that the dashing dachshund still got to be the ring bearer.
It is very easy to forget that your beautiful dog can’t take himself to the bathroom when he needs a poo and is likely to relieve himself in the middle of where the drinks reception is taking place. If the responsible person looking after the pooch doesn’t see this (sometimes enjoying their Champagne too much) then it doesn’t take much imagination to see what happens next.
Treats are also important as a bribery tool for the photos. Your dog is likely to be very excited and keeping him in one place for longer than a millisecond takes time, patience and treats. Entrust one of your Ushers with this if you can.
A towel is also a good idea. This is Britain and it rains; a lot. Muddy paws on bridal dresses is not ideal and your venue won’t thank you for muddy paws either.
Lots of guests, excited dogs and new places to sniff and run around can spell disaster if not managed well. At a recent wedding a lovely white Cockerpoo was present and looking lovely and shiny after his pamper session at the dog hairdresser but he was left to run around with another four legged guest prior to the Ceremony. The venue had a large pond. I think you can picture the rest! Needless to say a smelly, brown and wet dog was no longer part of the service.
Dogs, just like humans pick up on stress. If they are delicate souls a new place, lots of people including children and lots of noise can be overwhelming for them. Make sure you have somewhere your pooch can escape to if he looks to be overwhelmed. Just like people, they need time out too especially if it is very hot which is the case in many venues.
Also remember that although humans love the sound of music especially when they have had a few drinks, but dogs do not. The sound of a disco or live band is not something a dog enjoys and can be very distressing for them. Consider booking a doggy sitter for your evening do. There are some great ones around I have listed below.
Once you have considered the above practicalities you can then enjoy making the most of having your doggy centre stage at your Cotswolds wedding. There are some great products on the market for dogs at the moment. I have seen ring bearing collars, bandanas, neckerchiefs, dogs in ribbons…. You name it, Etsy has something for everyone!
I’ve listed some suppliers below for products I’ve seen but have fun exploring!
I hope this was of use and provided some useful hints and tips. Ultimately my aim is making sure you have the BEST day, without any unnecessary stresses, and I am ready to provide lots of fuss and cuddles!
I’m hoping that the next craze will be bringing horses to weddings, and when this happens I’m ready to take the call! I can picture it now…
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